Temptation of family

family“Anyone who loves their father or mother more than me is not worthy of me; anyone who loves their son or daughter more than me is not worthy of me.” Mt. 10:37 (NIV)

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God has created within us a critical need to be loved and cared for. Emotionally neglected children have been found to have significantly lower IQ’s, as well as deficits in reading, mathematics, visual memory, verbal memory, general planning and problem solving.

If our critical need for love is not met during our formative years, it causes long-term consequences. Those fortunate enough to be born into a loving family escape these consequences.

But a loving family can also become a trap for us later in life.

God placed the need for love within us so that we would satisfy it through Him.

He is the only One who can ultimately fulfill our need for love and acceptance.

Unfortunately, a common and seemingly legitimate way to satisfy our need for love and acceptance is by pouring ourselves into our relationships within our family.

Rather than going and drinking from the Lord, we attempt to satisfy our longing for love and acceptance through our family.

This is what Jesus is referring to in today’s verse.

There is nothing wrong with loving our family.

What’s wrong…is loving them more than Him.

God gives us the gift of family as an expression of His love for us. However, when we place our family ahead of Him, we have made them into our God. Family becomes our idol.

This form of idolatry is so appealing because family, spouse, and children are in front of us and express their love to us in ways that are tangible. They communicate their love to us through tangible acts. God is intangible, and His love is expressed indirectly through His salvation and blessings.

We can’t hug God.

Yet God will never fail us.

Though He isn’t present to us in a way we can physically sense, He never leaves us. Wherever we go…He is with us and able to listen, comfort and support us.

In your quest for peace…shalom, be purposeful to drink of the love of the Lord…and you will be less likely to fulfill that need through family.

Prayer: Lord show me if I am loving family more than You, and help me to always love You first!

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